Bondage for Beginners
Originally posted to Adult BackWash: Friday February 27, 2004 Originally, I wrote this for someone who wanted ideas for getting started into BDSM. Mainly bondage as most people getting started aren’t...
View ArticleConversations About Switching (Part 2)
The closest I came before that was reading some of my Dad’s Gor books and finding trashy magazines my younger brother had hidden. These were geared to men’s fantasies of course. I’m still learning...
View ArticleThe Fly in the Room
He wanted everything to be perfect. After endless months of searching, hoping and personal ads… he had found a Domme. A real Domme. A woman who understood his needs, a woman he could serve. A woman who...
View ArticleContrast is the Spice of Life
I like this kit. It can be used along with something harsher and give real contrast. The soft feathers along the skin would be great just before a hard smack with something either thick or sharp. Then...
View ArticleThe Spencer Spanking Plan, 1936
The Spencer Spanking Plan By Dorothy Spencer *this was written so long ago that we believe it has fallen out of copyright. In any case, if you know who Dorothy Spencer is, we’d like to give her...
View ArticleBeginners Guide for Becoming a FemDom
BDSM has been exploding ever since Fifty Shades of Grey. Women who had lost touch with their sexual selves were now running back to their partners and jumping into bed with a new level of enthusiasm,...
View ArticleSo you Think You’re a FemDom?
For those who are confused… this is not serving her. This is a professional/ paid FemDom at work. How can you tell? For one thing, the biggest thing… how is this serving HER? She’s wearing...
View Article30 Days of Dominance
Found this posted to several Tumblr BDSM sites. Another project, for another time. Day 1 – Does your Dominance – either what you practice or what you strive for – have a label? Do you view your...
View ArticleHow and in what way do you exert your control?
The question was: How and in what way do you exert your control? My answer: The simplest answer is that control is understood. But, that leaves out all the fun and interesting parts. A D/s relationship...
View ArticleFlirtation, Seduction and Foreplay
Originally posted to Sex Kitten (2003 – 2004) Sometimes BDSM is boring. When you listen to yet another guy listing his fetishes, his turn ons, his kinky requirements, like a grocery list you will be...
View ArticleSexy Scavenger Hunt
The post Sexy Scavenger Hunt appeared first on Divorce Darling. Something to do on a long, rainy weekend together? Simple to just write out a list where each number rolled is something sensual. For...
View ArticleFemDom Art by Barb
I don’t know who Barb is but I like her work. The women are women, not porn stars in short leather skirts. Better yet, there is real caring and emotion in her FemDom art. That doesn’t come along often....
View ArticleReal FemDom Ideas To Dominate Your Man With
The link below offers a fairly traditional list of FemDom fetishes and kinks. I read the list and then thought: I don’t actually want most of that. Or, if I do, it’s not really all that interesting...
View ArticleIntroduction to Light Bondage
How to Dom with Light Bondage Restraints Sensual Deprivation Discipline Safety Restraints Restraints are rope, cuffs, etc. Start with something you can easily work with, safely. You want your...
View ArticleSeason’s Beatings Holiday Card
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